How Infidelity Affects Mental Health
No one ever wants to be on the receiving end of romantic betrayal. The emotional pain of discovering that someone you love and trust has been cheating and lying to you can be overwhelming.
When you are the victim of massive deception and betrayal, it can leave you feeling sadness, confusion, resentment, and anger. Many victims also feel an increase in their anxiety and a decrease in their self-esteem. But infidelity doesn’t just affect our emotional health, it also affects our mental health.
In fact, many victims of infidelity experience the same symptoms that are linked to Post-Traumatic Stress.
Some of the classic symptoms can include:
- Ruminative and intrusive thoughts
- Less ability to regulate emotions
- Frequent negative emotions, such as anger, anxiety, sadness, numbness
- Looking for potential threats
- Feeling helpless and vulnerable
- Confusion and disorientation
- Problems with concentration
- Lack of trust
If you have been the victim of infidelity, then you likely have been psychologically injured and you require tender care to set you on the path back to you.
Healing from Infidelity
As devastating as it can be to learn that your significant other has betrayed you in such an intimate way, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You can pick up the pieces of your life and find joy and comfort once again.
Here are some ways you can begin to heal after infidelity:
Be Gentle on Yourself
Don’t fall into the “I should have known…” trap. This is not your fault. Now is the time to be on your own side.
Your emotions will be overwhelming for a little while. You will feel lost, anxious and panicky. When these feelings start to rise, STOP, take a slow deep breath and let it out. Take another one and another one. It is amazing how deep breathing can completely calm us almost instantly. Your breath will become your new best friend.
Remember, you’re not just healing from infidelity, you may be healing from the mental health symptoms that the betrayal caused. You may need some professional guidance to help you cope with the symptoms you are currently experiencing.
If you would like to explore treatment options, please contact us. We would be happy to help you on your journey to becoming whole and happy once again.